I will borrow a thought from one of my favorite French writers,
Antoin de Saint-Exupery. He said, to love is not just looking at each other
but looking together in the same direction. I think this is the mature kind
of love. It’s not just about looking at each other in the eyes, kissing and exchanging smiles.
It is the ability to face life together; to overcome obstacles together and still be in love.
It is when we share common hopes, dreams and objectives.
If we do not love this way, we will find ourselves sooner or later
pulling each other in opposite directions.
Are you in love now? Are you looking at each other all the time
or do you look together in the same direction? Do you agree on the most essential issues
of your life?
Think about this.