These thoughts are based strictly on my own experiences and what I’ve observed in our society today.

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Prison does not take away criminality. It is the decision we take while in prison that will change us.

Having kids will not make me love children. If I love them first I will love them better when I  get in there.

Getting married does not make us mature and responsible. It could become an avenue for us to prove our immaturity and irresponsibility.

Changing the man at the top won’t solve the bankruptcy unless you understand what caused it in the first place.

Marriage can’t heal me from lust, frivolousness and unfaithfulness or porn. I must decide to “deal with it”.

Getting a new partner won’t heal the old wounds. I better get healed before I make Peter pay for what Paul did.

Cutting a tree at the trunk won’t kill it. Get to the roots, roll your sleeves and dig.

I hope I didn’t mess up your case. This post is addressed to me too, you know.


Comments on: "Change does not always bring change until you decide to change" (2)

  1. tracihalpin said:

    Great insights! Yes we have to do the work, and have an awareness of our feelings. I got married thinking that I arrived, but then I discovered I really didn’t like being married. I’m divorced, which sucks, but we were volatile together. Now I’m starting to plan to do things I’ve always wanted to do. So to refer to what you said getting married didn’t make me like marriage.

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    • You are so correct. As I said at the end of the post, it was inspired by my own experiences too. It can happen to just anybody. That is why I thought I should share on the topic.
      Thanks for stopping by to read.

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