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How do you know it’s time to move on?

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Life is made of seasons and the person who succeeds in life the most is the one who can tell what season it is. I’m not talking about seasons like winter or spring. I’m talking about the seasons of life.

There is a time to stay put and there is a time to move;

A time to talk and a time to be quiet;

A time to study and a time to impart into others what we have learned.

Here are some signs that could indicate it is time to move on; that’s it’s time to leave from one level, standard or location to another.

  • An unbearable discomfort in your present location.
  • You find no pleasure at all in doing the things you enjoyed doing in the past.
  • Unexplainable problems suddenly crop up between you and your boss, colleagues or entourage in general.
  • Either by chance, coincidence or by design you get exposure to knowledge that is pulling you out of your present situation.
  • You get connected to people who are operating at the level you envisage getting to next.
  • You realize you’ve got nothing more to learn in your present location. You could easily fossilize it you stay on.
  • You have this deep conviction within you that it’s time to move on.
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When God becomes your closest neighbour

Are you feeling lonely? Have family and friends abandoned or rejected you? Are you unmarried, childless or far away from home in a foreign land? Do you lack someone with whom you can share your joy, sorrows, fears and dreams? God knows all about it. Perhaps He even permitted it in order to get your attention. I’ve been there too. I have lived a situation whereby everybody in my environment wanted nothing to do with me. They were either too ashamed or too ignorant to identify with my affliction. My family was far away and I felt very lonely; alone in the crowd. At such a time, I learned to draw very close to my heavenly Father. He became my closest neighbor.

That is why I have developed a particular prayer language whereby if you hear me praying without seeing me, you may think I’m having a conversation with an intimate friend. He is my intimate friend indeed. It is something like this; “Daddy, I’m so hungry I can’t bear it any longer, what do you think about my new dress? I feel jealous of that lady, help me overcome it, do you know that I’m angry with you for letting me fall ill? I don’t like Mary and she just gets on my nerves. What do we do about it?” When you have gone through periods in your life when you had no one to talk to, you learn how to treat God as husband, friend, family, boss, etc. There were times when I wanted to be hugged and kissed and all I had was God, I wanted to be offered a bunch of roses but all I got was God, so I learned to take Him as my lover and spouse and what have you. This brought me to closeness with God which is really blessing me today. I have learned to depend on God alone so I’m no longer afraid to be rejected, so I am not afraid to be frank and honest in my opinion. I can boldly say today, I and God are majority.

Do not get me wrong; I still need my fellow humans, but if for some reason they become a source of trouble to me, I can easily send them off and turn to my God. What about you? Are you so keen on being surrounded by friends to the point where you  compromise just to have some around? Who is your closest neighbor and why? Do not be afraid to say “no” to the wrong company. You will always find a better friendship in God.

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